ARIES + CANCER (June 21 - July 22)Īries is the zodiac's baby (its first sign) Cancer is its matriarch, ruling the fourth house of motherhood, home and family. Not exactly the soothsaying your sweetie needs in a rare vulnerable moment. Above all, don't turn to each other for advice, unless you like impatient, tough-love coaching and draining circular conversations. Host and attend lots of parties with your mutual friends, and busy yourselves with projects that satisfy your short attention spans.
Remain active: get involved in a political campaign, build houses for the poor, take an eco-tour or scuba lessons. Boredom is the enemy it leads to cat-and-mouse games and mental chess matches with each other. The key is to pace yourselves and to continuously bring new adventures to the table. That said, you do have the makings of a great match that's rooted in true friendship, intellectual chemistry and fun. It doesn't all come out in the wash, so check that laissez-faire attitude when you're ring shopping on the second date. However, this attitude will lead to an inchoate relationship, with the two of you skydiving into City Hall before you even know each other's middle names. Sure, the adrenaline you evoke from trading edgy banter, bungee jumping, or playing footsie under the conference table might convince you that you're soulmates. You want what you want, and you want it NOW. Namely: impetuous, reckless, unstoppable drive for instant gratification. Your common traits are exactly what can snuff the spark before it combusts. You're the best of friends, so why not throw in some benefits? You certainly can…but not so fast. Like two tots in a nursery, you share a favorite word: Mine! You both crave attention, but don't go looking for it outside the relationship, unless you want a real showdown. Indulgent Taurus will need to remain active to keep pace with the energetic Ram (read: lay off the nightly steak frites and vino). Issues can arise if Taurus grows too possessive or tries to tame independent Aries. Aries has a lifelong provider and benefactor to supply creative freedom and endless playtime. Taurus gets an attractive show pony and a lusty mate to satisfy his Earthy libido. Once the fanfare is over, you make a great team-like British pop royalty Victoria (Aries) and David (Taurus) Beckham.Īs tight as two mafiosos, you like to dress up and flaunt your natural superiority over the rest of the animal kingdom. Thus, your initial faceoff is simply a warning shot: Show me your strength so I can trust you. Neither one of you feels safe in the arms of a mate who can't protect you. No weak-willed mate will survive your natural selection process. It certainly is for your signs-who possess an arsenal of steamrolling tactics, from doe-eyed charm to old-fashioned philistine strong-arming. Aggression, however uncivilized, is part our Darwinian natures.
So begins a fierce but fiery courtship, as splashy and menacing as a Pamplona stampede. The stubborn Bull locks horns with the willful Ram, nostrils flaring, heads bowed in determination. Some Aries couples may mutually agree to flex the terms of your monogamy, although the jealousy it stirs might not be worth the trouble. Like Aries Hugh Hefner, you have a champion libido (and an awesome sense of entitlement). Passionate sex is another antidote to prickly feelings for your high-touch sign. Try snowboarding, exotic bike tours, Costa Rican rainforest expeditions. As fellow adventurers, you travel well together.
Disperse your Martian angst and anger with lots of physical exertion. When your problems gain too much mental gravitas, it's time to move-literally. Neither one of you can be saddled with the emotional care and feeding of an adult baby. Nobody can beat a topic to death quite like you can-but that's what therapists are for, Aries. However, don't spiral into neurotic helplessness or analysis paralysis. You'll need to occasionally allow yourself to play wounded knight or damsel in distress, and let your mate charge to your rescue. You want to save the world and be saved at the same time. Aries is a paradox: you're the zodiac's infant (its first sign) and its gallant hero (you're ruled by warrior Mars). Acquiescence may not come naturally, but it builds a necessary trust. As such, you'll need to toss the hot potato back and forth, submitting to the other's rule-at times through gritted teeth. You're two high-strung, passionate Fire signs who both like to be the Alpha dominant.
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